Forgiveness is a difficult area for most of us. We all need to do forgiveness work. Both on ourselves and the people around us. Anyone who has a problem with loving themselves is stuck in this area. Forgiveness opens our hearts to self-love.
Many of us carry grudges for years and years. We feel self-righteous because of what someone else did to us. Bitterness is like swallowing a teaspoon of poison every day. It accumulates and harms us. It’s impossible to be healthy and free when we keep ourselves bound to the past.
The person who is hardest to forgive is the one who can teach you the greatest lessons. When you love yourself enough to rise above the old situation, then understanding and forgiveness will be easy. And you’ll be free.